Finding my way!

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A couple of months has been hard... let be emotional, financial or any other thing ... but i don't have any choice but to find my way out of this...

some are lucky and some aren't... sometimes i feel sorry for the people who can't keep what they have... and sometimes i feel sorry for me that i couldn't find anyone whom i can count on....

My friends ...my people are in good place in their life....i am happy for them.... but at this point, i am sad for myself... coz some treat me being a fool... and i feel sorry that they can be that stupid...

but nonetheless... a friend of mine told me once...when you find someone who will always keep u happy...be with him... don't be with someone who can make u feel weak... rather be with someone who can make u feel strong....and i shall take this mantra as i am moving forward.

Past months.. i have met so many old and new people and still can't rely on anyone...
So am back to my solitude, which i am comfortable and happy with...

Trust me it is such a relief in life that someone says "hey i am not interested in you" and i say in my heart... that's the whole point.... i really dnt want them to be interested in me...if i would than they would be surprised to see me in that version....

Friendship ....in today's world i haven't found a single person who is reliable ...who can keep their own words...and who is truly true... life is simple..yeah...and people who can't be simple and transparent with you...a person who can't be in your lowest moment... ain't worth it...

So yeah! found my goal back again and i know i am going places to find myself back....
i will always remember my life mantra which i have been taught with time...

Never look for support outside and search within....
Never leave someone when they are down or weak....
Never expect anything in return..
Never let anyone pul you down for the way you are...
Never trust a person blindly with your secrets if you are not there world....
Being selfless in good...Being practical & selfish is better....
Be with someone who love to ...not because they have worked hard for it....

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