I am way too good at Goodbyes!

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This is a song... but the lyrics define me in a way....

My heart is so habituated of hurting itself...that it has forgotten to fight....

Even though i feel and see a sign of the person like me... i never asked them, except once that do they like me? Coz i don't believe in assuming without knowing or being told... my imagination has no boundaries... and maybe because i am hardcoded with "Everyone is better off without you"

Every time when i am in trouble... i don't have someone to call...
but i remind myself.. you're alone. figure out yourself...

Every time when i am sick... i don't have someone to take care of me....or even worried to know about me...

Every night i go to the park and walk alone... and in my mind... i miss my mom, i missed my old me and every time i cry in that path...without other seeing me in the dark....

But today it was different... coz today is a festive nite for couples... where wife waiting for the moon to open their fast...
as i was walking toward the park... all the couple were out of their house eagerly waiting for the moon as none of the days they ever waited for the moon....

Strange some waited to open their fast and pray for their love life to be long and strong ...
and i looked up to remind myself... to walk alone....

every night when i walk alone ... I do a lookup in the sky... and look for the stars and moon...and keep reminding myself to walk alone with them...

I know its the most beautiful feeling to be in love...and i know i am not that lucky...
I know i am a difficult person to be ... and i know people who are looking for love... want to ease their life... not complicate them...

I know what hug means...i know what holding hand means...
i know despite wherever you are... if you get a hug from your life partner all your worries are lost...
i know when you're afraid... a warm holding hand..gives you the courage to fight your battle...

Strange i know what love means to me...but still, I am way too good at goodbyes now!


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