The Confession of the Hug!
Well, yes as the headline state the confession of the Hug!
Strange na! what kind of headline does that even mean.... well! i know what it means to me....
Today i met a friend, whom i feel he is true ! its very rare i feel this ... but i guess, with time people start learning and trusting the other person and i presume that exactly happening between us.
i don't say i know him... but as he shares his stories with me... i have started to understand him....
One of the stories he mentioned was about astrologer sharing some insight about his life past or future... and that reminded me, that my past love shared something similar to me.... which hurt me...
and he also, was doing to someone in similar line!
i know i have no right in other people business of what they think is right or wrong! coz definition of right is right for each individual!
So here is my story, in my hard phase of my love life... were my relationship was coming to the verge of end ...Irony is, i am sharing this story when my relationship ended years back this month , this very week!
Well! one fine day, when he started hurting me, and no complains, coz i knew that situation was coming... but you know even if you know this , even if you imagine this 1000 times before happening , the time it happens with you ... you cannot make yourself prepared for that pain....
So one call he was cursing cribbing about me... where he said i was the worst mistake of his life!!!
Their it goes....couldn't control my emotions...the guy who made me believe in love... made me believe that he shall never leave me ever even if i wanted too... the guy who guarded me from the world... the guy who became my lifeline... said to me about being worst mistake of his life!!!
Wow! sometime whenever i think this ... i am glad he said it... at least i know i did no wrong with him in his life decision , never commanded or instructed in his life decision, he chose to be with me... i ddn asked... i actually never believed that he wanted me to be his life.. but he did... and he said he met an astrologer who said , their will a girl who would not be right for you , who can mislead him...and next thing he said to me was completely unexpected.... he said i was that girl... i was expecting he would mean this for other girl .... he said he thought of me being that road blocker... that just shook me inside out
how can he ever say that.... did i misguided him... did i asked to love me over his family... did i gave wrong suggestion .. i could have done all this so easily... but i chose not too....coz i believe we are best friend first....and i shall never misguide anyone or control their life....
same i felt when this friend pointed out something similar of his love life!
and i ddn say a word , coz people want an excuse to believe what they want to believe ... and he got an excuse!
Today, after so many year.... that guy as per the astrologer forecast if it had been true... than he should have been married years back to that right person who shall guide him... he would have reached to place of success which the astrologer talked about... but i know he hasn't achieved any of that!!!!
i am not saying astrology is wrong! but what more imp is to trust and believe the person whom you have spend day and hours with understanding each other, rather one remark of the guy whom you spend few hours ,who expertise in stars and based on their judgement you make your life decision!
One basic question if astrologer or forecaster could read other people life... wouldn't they could read their and be what they wanna be in life... may be rich guy! may be celebrity or may be a nobody!
People forget the basic principle of life ! Life is defined by you not by stars! You want to make something work you need to do that effort not the stars! You cannot control or judge other people life, coz if your doing your giving right to that person do the same with you!
and specially when it comes to love! Don't judge love because of some kundli or stars! yes, do take the good inside for self boost ... but the others are purely a decision happen between two people! No one force someone to love them... and no one can force the other to stop to love them!
Defining what's right is done by you! your stars or kundli shall help you enhance your decision , but definition of your life is defined by you!
and back to his multiple life stories... and yes, i love listening to people stories, why ? i told that already in my previous post....and as said before... he doesn't know what hug means to me... but i am just glad to have his hug! coz that just a feeling of me not being alone, that's all!
Thankyou for your hug!
Strange na! what kind of headline does that even mean.... well! i know what it means to me....
Today i met a friend, whom i feel he is true ! its very rare i feel this ... but i guess, with time people start learning and trusting the other person and i presume that exactly happening between us.
i don't say i know him... but as he shares his stories with me... i have started to understand him....
One of the stories he mentioned was about astrologer sharing some insight about his life past or future... and that reminded me, that my past love shared something similar to me.... which hurt me...
and he also, was doing to someone in similar line!
i know i have no right in other people business of what they think is right or wrong! coz definition of right is right for each individual!
So here is my story, in my hard phase of my love life... were my relationship was coming to the verge of end ...Irony is, i am sharing this story when my relationship ended years back this month , this very week!
Well! one fine day, when he started hurting me, and no complains, coz i knew that situation was coming... but you know even if you know this , even if you imagine this 1000 times before happening , the time it happens with you ... you cannot make yourself prepared for that pain....
So one call he was cursing cribbing about me... where he said i was the worst mistake of his life!!!
Their it goes....couldn't control my emotions...the guy who made me believe in love... made me believe that he shall never leave me ever even if i wanted too... the guy who guarded me from the world... the guy who became my lifeline... said to me about being worst mistake of his life!!!
Wow! sometime whenever i think this ... i am glad he said it... at least i know i did no wrong with him in his life decision , never commanded or instructed in his life decision, he chose to be with me... i ddn asked... i actually never believed that he wanted me to be his life.. but he did... and he said he met an astrologer who said , their will a girl who would not be right for you , who can mislead him...and next thing he said to me was completely unexpected.... he said i was that girl... i was expecting he would mean this for other girl .... he said he thought of me being that road blocker... that just shook me inside out
how can he ever say that.... did i misguided him... did i asked to love me over his family... did i gave wrong suggestion .. i could have done all this so easily... but i chose not too....coz i believe we are best friend first....and i shall never misguide anyone or control their life....
same i felt when this friend pointed out something similar of his love life!
and i ddn say a word , coz people want an excuse to believe what they want to believe ... and he got an excuse!
Today, after so many year.... that guy as per the astrologer forecast if it had been true... than he should have been married years back to that right person who shall guide him... he would have reached to place of success which the astrologer talked about... but i know he hasn't achieved any of that!!!!
i am not saying astrology is wrong! but what more imp is to trust and believe the person whom you have spend day and hours with understanding each other, rather one remark of the guy whom you spend few hours ,who expertise in stars and based on their judgement you make your life decision!
One basic question if astrologer or forecaster could read other people life... wouldn't they could read their and be what they wanna be in life... may be rich guy! may be celebrity or may be a nobody!
People forget the basic principle of life ! Life is defined by you not by stars! You want to make something work you need to do that effort not the stars! You cannot control or judge other people life, coz if your doing your giving right to that person do the same with you!
and specially when it comes to love! Don't judge love because of some kundli or stars! yes, do take the good inside for self boost ... but the others are purely a decision happen between two people! No one force someone to love them... and no one can force the other to stop to love them!
Defining what's right is done by you! your stars or kundli shall help you enhance your decision , but definition of your life is defined by you!
and back to his multiple life stories... and yes, i love listening to people stories, why ? i told that already in my previous post....and as said before... he doesn't know what hug means to me... but i am just glad to have his hug! coz that just a feeling of me not being alone, that's all!
Thankyou for your hug!
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